Johan Ekenberg
This evening I listened to an online radio show with Johan Ekenberg on ‘Reviatlise Passion in Your Life’. The show was hosted by Cim Bartlett, owner of Rediscover Your Sparkle (a business set up for women who may have misplaced their sparkle and want to not only find it again, but have lots of fun along the way). They are both Swedish, although Cim lives in the UK and took Johan’s course last year, which tonight she described as one of the most life-changing things she has ever done.
Johan described, without sensation, the intimate details of how we as adults mature in all areas except our sex lives. He made the reasons plain … we have forgotten how to engage with one another, for whatever reasons. And the result is often a ‘dull’ and ‘boring’ sex life, with 4-seconds of bliss, where little if any intimacy takes place.
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He described this ‘lack’ as almost ‘using’ the others body and how we often have to draw on a mental image to get the process started, which takes us away from being with our partner. It helped me understand how automaton it can be and more importantly why.
So with Cim’s gentle sense of fun, a willingness to be open, and her excellent interviewing skills, Johan gave some simple examples of what we can do with or without a partner, and how we’re missing the point of ‘being’ with another if we think its just about the raw mechanics of orgasm. He talked a little of what we can do and how important it is to ‘be’ with your partner.
I had no expectations of the call and it had me laughing lots. I certainly want to know more and Johan Ekenberg is holding a workshop* between 17-19 April in London. This can be booked through Cim Bartlett … pls click here . … Cim summed it up when she concluded by saying … “It gives us all hope” …
Jane
* This workshop is NOT suitable for anyone under 18-yrs of age. It is NOT for sex addicts. Anyone expecting nudity or sexual participation will be DEEPLY disappointed.