Destiny
Well there’s irony!
There I was waxing lyrical about today’s topic – got distracted – came back to the site to look at something and by-passed the ’save’ feature (to my peril) that I’d written on the post …
And where I would have become frustrated with myself seeking some sort of justification, I now realize its a gentle nudge to get me back on track, and in this case I’d gone off topic from what had initially prompted me to post in the first place 
I’m finding it more subtle and calming than was beating myself up, blaming others or subscribing to the ‘it wasn’t meant to be’ club …
What can be dis-empowering about that phrase and forgive me if its just me being picky about words …………. I’ve a leaning – what can I say (something to be tapped on once I’ve removed the giant oaks and gotten down to the saplings (so to speak – thank you Gary Craig – EFT founder, genius and genuinely nice guy) ………….. is that it seems to suit the thinking that when things go well – we’ve created them from our great synergy and synchronicity – but when they go wrong it somehow lies outside of us. I just don’t subscribe to that idea – its all too easy! And I’m learning that’s where the real learning and growth are … ouch!
I find the phrase debilitating … what do you think?
Instead its far more helpful to adopt an attitude where we decide instead to deal with the consequences, address the issue, look for our personal lessons, use some energy techniques, get rid of it and ‘move on’. And of course that can be challenging for anyone.
Look forward to hearing your thoughts, views, feelings …
Jane
Raising Vibrations