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Darren Eden …

  • March 25, 2009 at 12:10 am

The Intuition

blue 3 wheel 50 pcnkd Darren Eden ...Last night I was talking to a friend …. she went on a course with Darren Eden last weekend, a 1-day introduction workshop on developing the Intuition.

I listened to Darren’s interview with Damien Senn @ www.peopleyoushouldmeet.com and at the end he gave a link to his site where a copy of the earlier interview is down-loadable.  That interview provides the 5-steps to quickly get past the illusory ’stuff’ that swirls around in our ‘minds’ to connect directly with the Intuition …. I won’t advise the steps here as they’re not mine to share … but here’s a link to sign up to Darren’s site where you can get a copy of the interview in exchange for a subscription to his newsletter.

I went through the whole routine first thing today and found the 5-different stages were similar in places to aspects I’ve experienced before with hypnosis … For anyone not familiar with any mind/body change work the instructions are excellent at all stages. And my personal question was to ascertain my career’s life passion.

Following Our Passions

darren eden fb picphp Darren Eden ...The information was revealing yet disruptive to my day as have been putting off this particular passion, having decided I lack experience, and filed it away for a future date rather than now.

So you can imagine quite a day followed, and was topsy-turvy to say the least … At one stage I checked out Darren’s course and he’s running a 3-day weekend from 17-19 July 2009 in London.  Its called The Initiation …which he describes as an introduction to the magic of your life.  On the call he’d stated how (perhaps it was a quote) … Magic is Real and its in the End Result … while also stating … (excuse the para-phrasing here) something his father had always said to him:

The Quality of Our Life is a Direct Result of the Quality of the Questions We Ask Ourselves …

Connect with Darren on FaceBook at http://Facebook/Darren Eden …

What do you think?

In summary – I’ve to thank Darren (and the friend that recommended him) its something I now have to seriously follow up … and that line of enquiry began the same evening after I’d talked myself down from the ceiling … Heady stuff this Intuition malarky!

Jane

Cagora’s Market Place …

  • March 20, 2009 at 10:24 pm

Cagora

Cagora is coming and its going to be big … why am I talking about it on a Spa site, when in effect its an internet product? Well its because I want to share the excitement that is Cagora because its different and it promises to be a ‘One Stop Shop’ with amazing potential to affect how we use the Internet in the future and therefore affects everybody.  It has a win:win philosophy and has been built ‘by the people for the people’.

What is Cagora?

Good question … The easiest way to describe it is as an Online Market Place/Community Centre where everyone hangs out … And here’s some of what it contains:

  1. Business – trading in your niche market
  2. Education – want to run an educational program then you can have a space with visual / speaking and chatting facilities
  3. Encyclopedia – check out any information
  4. Forum – get together and discuss the latest ‘hot topic’
  5. Market Place – find any service you currently use online
  6. Meeting Rooms – call a meeting to discuss your next business strategy
  7. Seminars – hold seminars to reach your wider audience
  8. Shopping – everything under one roof
  9. Social – get together and hang out with family and friends locally, nationally and internationally
  10. Training – run a training course and get your colleagues up-to-date with the latest ‘in-house’ information
  11. Videos – upload your latest business promo’s or your wackiest moments
  12. Workshops – facilitate practical ‘hands-on’ workshops where participants can engage and follow along in ‘real’ time

To name but a few … It has everything we currently use and more and has been almost a decade in its creation.  Where we currently visit Facebook, MySpace, eBay, Amazon, YouTube and other familiar friends, it will all be accessible in closer proximity like a ‘traditional’ market, with just one username and password to gain access …  So you can more easily bump into friends, family, business colleagues and workmates.

It’s simple, just log on and thats it … whatever you want to check out online will be viewable right there under the Cagora Umbrella …

Web 2.0 – Social Networking

Yes its very exciting and not only to Online Businesses, because Web 2.0 is being increasingly recognised as a key marketing feature for ALL business’ going forwards.  There is a slow realisation by many so-called ‘offline’ business’  who are recognising a market potential through customer connection available on the net.

What Web 2.0 does is enable a Business to talk to potential and ongoing Customers, and more importantly it allows Customers to have a look at a Business before they stop to purchase and decide on the ‘cut of their jib’.   This has wonderful potential for companies to become more market accountable.

The Community of Cagora

Cagora’s main thrust is COMMUNITY both off and online. They are about giving back/paying it forwards to the Community Partners and Affiliates, and includes a dedicated percentage towards community nominated projects. I don’t know about you but I think its exciting and has a great future  …

If you would like any more information then please contact me … or check out the affiliate program, which is offering a two-tier benefit until the end of the month.  Just to be clear this is NOT mlm … and if affilate programs are not for you, then there are plenty of other opportunities to get involved with Cagora in other ways.  You may want to become a Community Partner and there is more information here …  Or if you prefer then please contact me.

Jane

The Friction of DULL Sex …

  • March 19, 2009 at 11:50 pm

Johan Ekenberg

blue 3 wheel 50 pcnkd1 The Friction of DULL Sex ...This evening I listened to an online radio show with Johan Ekenberg on ‘Reviatlise Passion in Your Life’. The show was hosted by Cim Bartlett, owner of Rediscover Your Sparkle (a business set up for women who may have misplaced their sparkle and want to not only find it again, but have lots of fun along the way). They are both Swedish, although Cim lives in the UK and took Johan’s course last year, which tonight she described as one of the most life-changing things she has ever done.

Johan described, without sensation, the intimate details of how we as adults mature in all areas except our sex lives. He made the reasons plain … we have forgotten how to engage with one another, for whatever reasons. And the result is often a ‘dull’ and ‘boring’ sex life, with 4-seconds of bliss, where little if any intimacy takes place.

Tantric

johan 100 The Friction of DULL Sex ...He described this ‘lack’ as almost ‘using’ the others body and how we often have to draw on a mental image to get the process started, which takes us away from being with our partner. It helped me understand how automaton it can be and more importantly why.

So with Cim’s gentle sense of fun, a willingness to be open, and her excellent interviewing skills, Johan gave some simple examples of what we can do with or without a partner, and how we’re missing the point of ‘being’ with another if we think its just about the raw mechanics of orgasm. He talked a little of what we can do and how important it is to ‘be’ with your partner.

I had no expectations of the call and it had me laughing lots. I certainly want to know more and Johan Ekenberg is holding a workshop* between 17-19 April in London. This can be booked through Cim Bartlett … pls click here . … Cim summed it up when she concluded by saying … “It gives us all hope” …

Jane

* This workshop is NOT suitable for anyone under 18-yrs of age. It is NOT for sex addicts. Anyone expecting nudity or sexual participation will be DEEPLY disappointed.

Bouncing like a kid …

  • March 7, 2009 at 10:45 am

The Naughty Power of the Subconscious

Strangely, this morning I fell … was it that I mentioned it in the previous days post (as a fleeting reference!) and so awoke something in my bodies history … but what was remarkable was the automatic and quite different response I had …

Is it ‘All in the Mind’

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I literally bounced up from the floor … it was bizarre … It felt like a cross between one of those contact rolling-body experiences you see where one person makes body contact and rolls over the other with intuitive speed and agility. And also like a fast-forward/backward film clip!

Light as a Feather

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And as I fell I was light and laughed my head off … a great and very different reaction to any I had in the past … I’m impressed with the difference and happily using it as a gauge to measure how far I’ve traveled in recent times.

Good times … as that west-country comedian would say! I was so happy with that and the wonderful day followed in its wake.

So let me ask you, what have your experiences been with gravity lately?

Jane

Yoga with Pete Blackaby …

  • March 6, 2009 at 12:03 am

The Breathe

I recently attended a workshop (2 of 2 on the Breathe) with Pete Blackaby http://www.peteblackaby.co.uk at Cora Kemball-Cook’s lovely yoga studios in Canterbury, Kent (I attend Cora’s monthly Health and Healing group).

Pete’s style of teaching casts away a veil of what other teachers shirk away from (yet seem undeveloped in their opinion of) regarding the mystical element of Yoga.  And like him I live in a western post-industrialized country and because of this I like Pete for not only addressing these issues but telling it the way he feels it.

He talks about his current discoveries and makes clear that he hasn’t all the answers (as most teachers might).  He invites an opinion from the group and intertwines it organically into his organized program.   This difference demonstrates his authenticity and his views mostly coincide with my own.

I began practicing Yoga 8-yrs ago and have taken quite a journey where I began as a very flexible person, but within 3-mths I experienced what led to long-term injury.

Choosing a Yoga Style and Class

My Yoga classes started as a freebie where I worked, and I was excited as I’d been introduced to Yoga in my early twenties and due to (what I felt) was a rather dull Yoga teacher I fell away from it.  My newer teacher came from the Iyengar school, she was tough, relentless and fell neatly into my North of England background where ‘nothing worthwhile comes easy’ so what did I know, then?  She pressed limbs and sat on lower backs to manipulate us into postures I was ‘proud’ to be capable of and continued in this vein in my own usually irregular practice.

However the injury occurred in a Gym as at that stage I was overlapping fitness styles to become healthy.  I was using a Down Face Dog pose as a warm-up exercise (I knew no better) and collapsed in a heap on the mat with a lower-back pain as ice-packs were quickly applied.  I had difficulty in walking for the ensuing months and required an adapted chair at work.  When I finally saw a Physiotherapist (due to ignorance in not pressing for assistance earlier) I was advised that flexible people [like me - and it was 'official' as I was given a 'bendy fingers/thumbs test - the further back you can bend them the more flexible you are, apparently and there's a gauge] are more likely to fall into injury but take longer to recover due to less sensitivity because they have further ‘reach’ before the senses kick-in.  A big learning or was it?  And adversely this indicates that the stiffer you are the safer you are in exercise, because you reach and protect your resistance point sooner.

Injuries happen so Easily

I recovered within 3-mths and regained almost full flexibility in no-time.  But 18-mths down the line I experienced similar but deeper injuries that I’m still recovering from as these continued to escalate with poor balance and lots of falling over!  So why have I not turned my back on Yoga and told it ‘where to go’?

The simple explanation is that I got such great benefit from it and whenever I recover and get back ‘there’ I feel it again.  Initially I experienced such a deep change as I began to ‘calm down’ as one of Harry Enfield’s characters might say.  The inner change was a huge shift for me.

Returning to Health

But due to lack of Yoga and other exercise I have declined into a stiff pole, hankering for the flexibility I took for granted and I appreciate that I can return to it provided I ‘change my ways’ and begin a more conscious-minded practice.  And this is what Pete Blackaby promotes.  His style is not for the ‘work-out’ fanatic, but instead is about taking the route of ‘intention’ (as with all change-processes I believe) and reaching your own resistance point which is where the exploration and learning begins.  For me it will take quite a while (I’m resisting numbers here – after all I wouldn’t want to hem myself in now would I – but I have set some goals!).

He’s based in Brighton (on the south coast) as are so many Yoga teachers in the UK, and Pete trained as an Osteopath and knows his stuff.  This man walks the walk and talks the talk … and I like his style of teaching and will continue to attend his classes where others have left me stranded …

Check out Pete’s classes and courses and if you’re not UK based then you’ll just have to visit these shores or look out for his book ‘How Yoga Works’ (the working and probably final title) which I believe is due out towards the end of this year.

Jane